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Category: Ask Coach Tony

Welcome to Ask Coach Tony!
Ask Coach Tony is where I share unfiltered field notes from the goal-crushing life. These posts capture lessons from coaching clients, my own breakthroughs, and plenty of failures along the way. All real, all useful, all designed to help you find the courage to commit to your goals and the tools to crush them.

This One Thing Causes More Disappointment and Frustration Than Any Other

Ever feel like you’re doing everything right but still ending up frustrated?

There’s one sneaky habit that quietly sabotages your progress, motivation, and happiness…. and you’re probably doing it right now without even realizing. In this post, I’m unpacking what it is, how it messes with your mindset, and four simple shifts you can make to escape the trap.

If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start making real progress, this one’s for you.

Wear the Damn Outfit: Confidence Isn’t Something You Earn Later

Confidence doesn’t come before the outfit… it comes from wearing it.

This week, we’re calling BS on the idea that you have to feel ready before you show up boldly. Whether it’s a crop top, a shirtless run, asking for the raise, writing that book, or signing up for that scary-but-exciting goal — this post is your nudge to stop waiting, start living, and wear the damn outfit.